We Arranged It





Since I am going to be the bride, I decided to be the first to introduce.... Its all about my world. Being me and living my life my way. I have been a very independent and strong woman. My dad has brought me up and taught me to be like that. I love colors and happiness. I am helpful but it has got a limit. Do not like if people take it for granted. Live my life on binary mode of either a Yes or a No, nothing in between. No nonsense type. People say that I am a good friend to have and a better enemy. For more you need to have some relation with me...... 

Here comes Dev....the dude for Labhi. I live my life my way too. Labhi thinks I am a damn jiddi man. And she says I am better that way. I love my family and cannot live without my friends. I am a cook and love playing the host. Sometimes, I get confused, but I am usualy a clear headed person. Though I have complains about a lot of things around I do not like cribbing.


Well...this is  our story. We both kind of love to talk about it. We were living in two differet worlds of ours, were linked through friends but never knew that. Then comes Dev's info tech brain in bride hunting. Labhi was open, with many proposals but not ready. We started talking and kind of fallen for each other. Dev proposed before even meeting Labhi and he will never accept it. Labhi..another confused species, she still does not have an explaination for her feelings. But she loves him. Then Labhi goes to Hyderabad on official visit and meets this guy for the first time and phew!!!!! Great spark.... we both love it. Initially our idea was to take a call by the end of the year but destiny have already planed things in its own way. So finally we have taken a step forward....... towards formalizing. Labhi told her dad on a point blank note and without any information that her father was asking. But that was that. Dev told his mom and they accepted. He also had very little of the required information.

 And now if you ask if it is an arranged marriage..
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the answer is YES!!! just that we arranged it ourselves......



So this is PART III: Finally our families have manged to tie us with each other on a more social note..... Dev is about to lose his bachelores' and Labhi will be getting the masters.... ( She hates to be at driving seat though )

Dev can escape all this "Side effect of his love"..till 24th..not after that.... So friends..please be around to see Dev ( and ofcourse Labhi, she is so damn happy about it ) ringed on 24th...of January 2007 at Labhi's home...



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Oh well..... after all that halla gullaa, we finally got married on 12th of May 2007. And post wedding i got time today only to update my blog.

Pre wedding and Post engagement people asked me how I felt, the answar was confused... and post wedding i am clearer on my thought... the answer now is Broke and Dead Tired !!!!!!

On this ground no comments from Dev's side... He still has not recovered from the shock called marriage !!!!!

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